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Glendon Oliver posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
May the Lord God continue to bless and keep you. Remember that there is no sorrow on earth that heaven cannot heal. May the peace of God continue to guard your hearts during this time and the days ahead.
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mina posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
What a shock you gave us - am sure you are in a good place - love to all!!!
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Kristy Satterfield posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Brenda had a great sense of humor. She was a very sweet person. The legacy she will leave with me is that she was always kind to me and kind to the people around her. She was a caring person. Her uplifting nature will be mised by all of us. God bless her family.
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Silke Arnold posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Brenda was such an inspiration to me. She gave me a little pusher too to go back to school. I will do great and when I graduate I will look up to heaven and fuzz her out because I wanted to become a part of her team. She always has been so good to work with, when you don't understand something she calmly explained. She is greatly missed in my life. When I grow up I want to be like Brenda in the work field. Terrel, she was so proud of you, showed off the stuff you send her, even your pictures from your Tour of Duty. You had an awesome Mom.
Want to come to the services, however I will be in school tomorrow and than out of Town.
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Billie Hall posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
To the good times Brenda until we meet again. You will truly be missed by your family,the family of TDEC, and all your friends. You have blessed all of our lives and I thank you for that.
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Jamie Jarrell posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell,
Sorry about your lost. Your mom was very sweet and she will be dearly missed around TDEC. You and your family will be in my prayers.
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Gina Phillips posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
My Sweet Brenda, Reading through everyone's messages it confirms what I have always known in my heart from the first day I met you--that you touch people's lives in the most positive, resonating way and your gift of love just goes on and on. We didn't know each other that long and what I will miss most is all the memories we hadn't yet made together. But, I will cherish the ones we did have and let them be a reminder to never take the important things in life for granted. I love you my sweet friend. May your Beautiful Soul Rest in Peace. Terrell and Family, My heart breaks for you guys. Terrell, your mom was so proud of you. There wasn't a single time that we spoke that she didn't say so or comment on how much she loved you. My family is always here for yours.
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Bill Williams posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
To Terrell and the Weatherby family- Brenda was a very special person and I have enjoyed getting to know her here at TDEC over the years. I will miss her. My thoughts and prayers go out to each of you.
Bill
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James and Jackie Marks and Shonna posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I took me a little while before I could write anything Terrell, but once I decided to leave a message, the fun times, the smiles, the jokes, the hospitality and the caring thoughts started to come to mind about your
mother. She was the kind of person that reminded you of the values people
can have. No doubt these will show up in you. So sorry for you and the family.
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Sharon Matheny posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Brenda, I will never forget all the fun times we had during the time you worked with me at the Tennessee Bureau of Investigation. You could always put a smile on my face and in my heart. I enjoyed our talks and all of our shared emails. I loved hearing about all of Terrell's adventures in Cuba and I know how very proud you were of him because your voice lit up every time you spoke his name. I will always cherish the memories I have of all our trips we took to work conferences and all the fun we had in Austin, Texas and San Diego, California. I will miss you every single day until we are reunited in Heaven. Sharon
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Beverly Evans posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
What I admired most about Brenda was her desire to always be fair and do the right thing. She was sincere in that...wanting to be in compliance with policies and rules. My last conversation with her I commented on how great she looked and we both rejoiced because it seemed the adjustments she had recently made enhanced her health. So, when I learned of her death on Monday morning, I was devastated and still find it hard to believe she is asleep. God's promise is for those who believe, death is only a sleep and therefore, temporary. So we have this hope that at the return of Jesus, Brenda will hear His voice call her from the slumbering grave and we will be reunited with her if we are also found faithful. Let us therefore, comfort one another with this promise. 1Thessalonians 4: 15-18.
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Tonga Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell and the family, you had a jewel of a lady in Brenda, I was really fond of her. We worked to together here in TDEC for the las 9 months on a project for her division and she was so very helpful in assisting and getting the project to completion that we have just recently implemented. As we worked together, we got to know each other personally. Terrell, your mom was so proud of you! We talked about your military and diving experiences. You are close to the same age as my son, so we would chat about you two every now and then to get updates on how you were doing. I'd always compliment Brenda on her perfect eyebrow arches as I see now she's always had :-). There are many things we don't understand in life but, we just have to trust, believe and have faith that Brenda is in a great peaceful, wonderful place with her bright smile and the twinkle in her eyes. . Brenda will be truely missed around here. Please know that she left her mark and contributions in service to the State of TN, TN Dept. of Environment and Conservation. My prayers, thoughts, and condolences to the family and friends. R.I.Paradise Brenda
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Melinda Crutchfield posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. She was a very bright and beautiful star. Please take comfort in knowing that she has gone home and is rejoicing in streets paved in gold.
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Alex Dodson posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Once again, I am very sorry about your loss. Here is a Psalm that was read at my father's funeral back in '08 and that I want to share with you and your family. Psalm 23 A psalm of David. 1 The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. 2 He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, 3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. 4 Even though I walk through the darkest valley,[a] I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. 5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. 6 Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
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Mary Lee Price posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Losing someone special
Is a terrible thing to bear.
It's the kind of shock for which
We simply never can prepare.
One moment we are smiling,
And the next is filled with tears.
And losing one we love does not
Get easier with years.
But please remember you have friends
To help and ease your way
Who share your loss and care for you
Far more than words can say. I only saw Brenda 2 times she was a very sweet person.She came when my husband passed away was the first time I met her. My daughter Monica works with her for a few years and Monica really liked her.I am so sorry for your loss
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Kathy Northington posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell and Jane this has been so difficult for me I can't imagine your grief. I feel lost. Brenda has been my best friend for over 20 years through our good times and bad..we shared our worries and happiness. What I do know is how much she loved you both. She was so proud of you Terrell. She was radiant with happiness when you were home earlier this year. I loved her dearly and will always cherish my memories of her. She was so much more than a best friend she was a sister to me. If there's anything I can do for either of you...you just have to ask. God bless you both.
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Lois Ashby posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Brenda was a wonderful woman to work with and a very special friend. She was generous, loving, honest, a hard worker, and always maintained the highest standards in her work and life. We could laugh at the absurd and enjoy the ridiculous every time we got together. We were planning to visit Terrell in Cuba in June and she planned to take scuba lessons so she could explore the ocean with him, but I was going to snorkel. Terrell was the light of her life and she loved him unequivocally. Pride in him radiated out of every word she spoke about him. We had dinner together at Mcnamara's and she was happy with her life and her job. I will always remember her that way because that is exactly what she was like. I will miss you Brenda!!
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Carmen McConnell posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I had the privilege of teaching Brenda's son, Terrell, and through this I got to know Brenda. She was always so supportive to me. Terrell, I want you to know (though I know your mother showed you through words and actions) that she loved you dearly. You meant the world to her; she always wanted the best for you; she had big dreams for you, young man. Dreams that you've already made a reality. I'll never forget she and I laughing about you LOVING the show Jag. Now look at you, Mr. Military Man. I know she is so proud of you.
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Cynthia Barton posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Amber, I lit this candle for Brenda. I hope this brings peace to you and your family during this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Cynthia Barton
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Jamesetta Gray posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
To Terrell and the Weatherby Family, For the past 6 years Brenda has been my supervisor. However, I think of her more as a friend. Throughout the years, our conversations would begin with a focus on work but would always end with mention of family (our children). Terrell, you don't know me, but I feel that I know you. Your mother was a smart, wonderful, and beautiful person who was sooo proud of you! Even though we spoke mostly by telephone, I could see the sparkle in her beautiful eyes and the abundance of love in her heart when she spoke of you. I am deeply saddened and will miss her greatly. My heart and prayers goes out to you and all of your family. Please find comfort in your memories and in these bible verses: Psalm 30:5b “weeping may endure for a night, but joy comes in the morning.” (*KJV) Psalm 55:22 “Cast your cares on the LORD and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous fall.” (NIV) 2 Corinthians 4:17-18 “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all. So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” (NIV)
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Paul, Leslie and Emily Cross posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
We want to express our sincere sympathy to all of her family and friends and pray for your comfort at this time.
The Cross Family
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Janet Vickrey posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Dear Terrell,
I am so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. She was always a wonderful, vibrant, and loving woman. She always made feel welcome and needed in all of the ROTC meetings and activities. She was a beautiful woman inside and out. I pray that God will give you the peace that only He can give. So thankful that both of you have been a part of my life. Thank you for all of the kindnesses that you have shown to Justin. I will miss her as I know others will also. Will be praying for you and your family.
Janet Vickrey
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PAT CHILDS posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
i carry mail every time i was away for my mail cart she would hide i t isaid brenda where is my cart she would run and laugh she was alot of fun i worked with her in fiscal service for the state of tn
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Jerome Franklin posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell, Your momma was a fighter, tough as nails! Out of all of her personal challenges whether it was health, job, family, she never quit fighting. We had many challenges in common and she inspired and informed me with some of the challenges we had in common. Regardless of what folks think, she was special to me. She kept me motivated into my purpose. I'm glad to see you are doing well serving our country. Brenda was proud of you and I am too. I know you will miss her but I know she has equipped you well with what you need to survive. Look to the Lord. Psalm 27.
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Renee Stewart posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrel, keep your heart full of memories. Brenda was a wonderful example of compassion, grace, honesty, and beauty. She never said never and she always smiled, even when she didn't feel like it. I will miss seeing that smile.
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Ursula posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell, you probably don't remember me, because you were very young, when I saw you during the wonderful get togethers your mother was famous for. I remember one time, when I visited in White House. You had built the Titanic (true to size) in a way that the body of the ship could break in two parts just like it happened in real life. Your Mom was so proud of you for having completed the project and you were just so eager to demonstrate the break up of the ship over and over again and you bathed in your mother's praise. If there was a constant in your mother's life, it was her love and support for you and I know for sure that she already has set claim on being your Guardian Angel from now on.
Terrell, Jane and Amber and family, no words can ease the loss you bear. Perhaps you will find some comfort in knowing others care. The world has lost a truly unique person. Brenda will live forever in my heart and in the memories we shared. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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Isaac Okoreeh-Baah posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I remember when Terry enlisted in the Navy. It seem like yesterday. Being a Navy Dad and later a Marine Dad, we had a lot in commom. She was always kind and warm to me. I made a point to ask about Terry at all tmes whenever I saw her. This made her very happy. " It hurts so much for such to happen but God's time is the best and we shall meet again in Heaven. Keep the faith and I thank God for makind Brenda available to mankind though as short as it seem.
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Isaac Okoreeh-Baah posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I remember when Terry enlisted in the Navy. It seem like yesterday. Being a Navy Dad and later a Marine Dad, we had a lot in commom. She was always kind and warm to me. I made a point to ask about Terry at all tmes whenever I saw her. This made her very happy. " It hurts so much for such to happen but God's time is the best and we shall meet again in Heaven. Keep the faith and I thank God for making Brenda available to mankind though as short as it seem.
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Trena Fair posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Amber, So sorry to hear about Brenda. You are in my prayers for the loss of your sister. Trena Fair
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Winston Shurtleff posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Brenda, the office will never be the same without you. You were a ray of sunshine that kept the office lit up. Thanks for being my friend. Not sure what I am going to do without you to correct my gammar. My reports may take longer to get out. You were a special lady and will always hold a special place in mt heart.
Terrell, you have and will read many accounts of your Mother's love for you and how proud she was of you and she did love very much. She was proud to be a Navy Mom. I know you are hurting and will miss her very much but know that you have family and friends there for you. God Bless, Winston
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Jamie Jarrell posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell, Your mother was sweet person and would do anything for you. She well be greatly missed. I enjoyed working with her in the deptartment and in APC. You and your family are in prayers.
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Kathy posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I met Brenda at Eastland Cafe a few years ago and we became instant friends. It didn't seen to matter how much time would pass in between the times we would get together, we would just pick back up right where we left off. She was a wonderful person. I love her and I will miss her terribly. I will always remember her as always smiling, always there, always a true friend, and for always loving her son more than anything else in this life. Terrell; you are the reason she existed and she absolutely adored you. Her passing has reminded me how quickly time passes by...
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Cathy Kemp posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Terrell, our family met Brenda through her work. We all became instant friends. We felt as if we had known her always. She spent July 4th with us a couple of years ago, and we had such a good time. She talked much of you and how proud she was of you. It was obvious that you were the MOST important part of her life. She was such a special person and will be missed so much. May God bless you now and always. Joe and Cathy Kemp, Philip and Leanne Kemp Hesson
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Donna and Nina posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Dear Sweet Brenda, Tough as nails, sweet as pie, a friend of a friend, who became our friend. Please know how much we loved you, didn't express it enough ... and one who I knew would become an even better friend through the years. We now have lost that chance, my sorrow. Oh, we had fun getting our nails done, going to the movies, and we were looking forward to going to the Cheesecake Factory on Sunday ... a place you were really wanting to visit. You will always be a sunshine memory for us. Nina remembers how you lovingly disciplined her, and she wants to tell you she loved you lots. Please say hello to Bill for us. Terrell, we are so sorry for you, we love you. Donna
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Bruce Davis posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Dear Terrell: I came to know Brenda as a wonderful person during the years I worked with her at TDEC. I also came to know her better after she moved to East Nashville. Since her move, she and I would run into each other frequently at Eastland Cafe. Never once did she not talk of you! She truly was so very proud of you!!!!! She missed you dearly when you were away. I could see it her eyes, and hear it in the tone of her voice. Continue to make her proud and happy with your life. Also, consciously connect with her spirit in your mind. It will still bring you much comfort. I am so sorry that you and your family are experiencing such a great and sudden loss, and I pray that Peace will drape over you all very soon. Very sincerely,
Bruce Davis
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Missi Dodge posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I was saddened to hear of the sudden passing of Brenda. She was a sweet and compassionate woman. I remember things she said to encourage me after having surgery a couple of years ago. She will be missed by many. I pray for comfort for your family during this sad time.
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Kim Kirk posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
It has been my pleasure to work with Brenda for a number of years. I've grown to have great respect for her professionalism and much appreciation for her humor. She has spoken with such love for her son. I will think of her often and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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America Miller posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Brenda and I worked together in two departments. We would always stop and talk to each other when we would see each other . We worked together as an auditor in one department and on different floors in another department. She was a great to work with.
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George Calder posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
To the family, I am sorry to hear about Brenda's passing. I worked for her from 2001 to 2004, in the Fiscal Services unit of TDEC. Brenda was that friendly, helpful person that every one says about her. It was a pleasure to work with her. George Calder
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RosaLee posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I remember Brenda as a little, dark-haired, quiet child, and never had a chance to know her as an adult. But it was fun watching her grow up. Love to all.
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Kat Deaver posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
My Dear Friend, I miss you terribly and love you so much.
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LaRose Dean posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
To Terrell and the rest of Brenda's family: I first met Brenda in Dec. 1999 when my position at work was moved to Brenda's newly created section. I found out quickly that the best part of that move was gaining Brenda as a good friend. I can't remember her ever having anything but that sparkle in those lovely eyes and a big smile on her face. She always projected such joy that you never could leave her presence without feeling better. It was such a shock to hear about her passing; I simply did not want to believe it. And I'm sure you all are still in that stage of shock and disbelief. Brenda loved you all so much, as she did her friends. Terrell, your Mom loved you so very much and was so very proud of you--that you can never doubt. We are all going to miss her. But I feel so fortunate just to have had the opportunity to call her my friend.
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Frank Bolyard posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I worked with Brenda off and on for only 2 weeks and was positively impressed with her willingness to provide information and be helpful. With my Navy background we also discussed her son's career. In this short time I was impressed with her level of understanding and looked forward to working more with her regarding various audit expectations.
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Kim Ridings posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I love Brenda so much and I can't imagine not ever looking into those beautiful, sparkling, michievious eyes of hers. She always knew how to make me smile. She always had something positive to say. She always bragged about Terrell and said how proud of him that she was. I miss her so much! I know that I will think of her every day and see her wonderful smile and hear her great laugh. BW I will always love you!
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Stephanie "Stevie" Bridgwaters posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
I will miss my dear friend of 27 years. Terrell and all of Brenda's family and close friend do as I will do. I will gain strength by remembering all the happy times, laughs and long long long dinners we shared together. I will forever keep in my closest memory our dinner together on May 22. Never put off being with the people you care the most for. Rest in peace by dear friend you gave much love to us. Stephanie "Stevie" Bridgwaters
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Carol Hart Farragher posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
"Let's go try this!" or "Let's go do that!" A zest for life...willing to try something new... There are so many ways to describe Brenda, but these descriptions are how I knew her best. "Brenda, in the days to come I will chose to think of you and I on the next adventure we had planned on the shores of Florida and just skirting the edges of fun-loving trouble."
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Carolyn Sullivan posted a condolence
Thursday, May 12, 0001
Such a shock! I definitely miss her presence on the 9th floor. Always a smile and those eyes! So sorry, Terrell.
